Responding to Life’s Experiences

6:11 AM


36 Weeks



Respond (v)- Say something in reply.

React (v)- Respond or behave in a particular way in response to something.

Everyday we are all presented with the opportunity to either respond or to react to life’s experiences and it makes all of the difference. I noticed how quick I was to react to what I was experiencing and not properly responding. It was exhausting constantly working myself up and I decided to take some time out to learn how to better respond. It took a lot of time and discipline but I am here. I no longer react off of how experiences make me feel. I allow myself to feel however I do but I do not respond until I have processed the emotion through thought to get to the core of why I feel the way I do.

There is so much power in the ability to respond to what is happening for you and not to you. Life is not happening to us; everything in our lives is happening for us to grow and develop in every aspect. We repeat the same cycle of experiences until we’ve fully developed the skill of response and not reaction. The more we react, the less time we spend responding.

So today and everyday forward, I thoughtfully respond to the experiences I’ve been blessed to have.

I wish you the same energy!

Happy Freedom Friday!


5/24/2019 Thoughts

7:08 PM

I’ve been on my spiritual journey for almost a year and the one lesson I continue to learn is that healing and growth are constant and never ending.

Everyday we grow. We are more experienced. We are more aware of ourselves, our habits, and our thoughts.

I’ve learned so much about the woman I am destined to be and how resistant I was to change.

2018 was one of the most significant years of my womanhood. I suffered so much lost and gained so much more once I released the old and allowed unstable and insecure towers to collapse.

The moment I started honoring my intuition and being more faithful in my magic and ability; my entire life changed.

For years, I’ve allowed my ego to consume me and have made so many life altering decisions; none of them I regret because without this experience I’ve acquired, I would still be naive.

Being insecure and unsure of myself, I participated in activities and exhausted energy which lead to a complete change of scenery and an elevated perception.

Through the obstacles and challenges of life and love, 2018 rocked the socks off the woman I was and I allowed me to stand here as the beauty I am today!

I’ve done so much reflecting and inner work that I am amazed each time I catch a glimpse of the beautiful reflection staring back at me in the mirror.

I’ve transformed and am in my highest form, doing things that serve only my highest good!

I’ve allowed myself to be indecisive and restricted to the limits of fear for too long and 2019 has been a significant year of change and faith!

I’ve devoted the last year of my life to solidifying my womanhood and building security in myself.

Making the decision to honor my intuition has changed my life for a greater good and I am so proud of the woman I am today.

I am home. I am safe. I am in love with a man I’ve loved since childhood.

The magic that has transpired in my life is unbelievably overwhelming but I am so worthy of it and all that is to come.

I write this to say, you are always one decision away from changing your entire life.

Make the decision today.

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